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5 Tips On How To Get A Man To Marry You

There's been an awful lot of ink spilled on the topic of how to get a man to marry you. Here are my top five tips.

Tip #1. Ask him.

Ok, this one's a bit obvious, but it's probably the easiest way to how to get  a man to marry you. But have you actually considered it? If you're waiting to be  asked, you might be waiting a long time. Don't for goodness' sake stand on  ceremony - if you want to know, just ask him. If you've never brought it up in  conversation, don't be scared. Far better to find out now than two years from  now, that he's not into the idea of marriage.

If you've been seeing a man exclusively for at least the last 6-12 months,  it's important to know that you have similar attitudes and definitions toward  commitment. After all, don't you want to be heading in the same direction?

Tip #2. Be comfortable with yourself, and your own reasons for  wanting to getting married.

Are you really sure that you want to get married? And why do you want to get  married? If the only reason that you want to tie the knot is because a family  member is pressuring you, or because all your friends are doing it, then you  might want to reconsider. Because if the first thing he says after you bring up  the subject of marriage is "why", you're going to want a good answer and you're  going to want the right answer. Namely because you love him and you want to  spend the rest of your life with him.

Tip #3. Be comfortable with him.

In order to get a man to marry you, ask yourself, "am I sure that he's the  right one for me"? Can you really see yourself with him in ten years, in twenty?  In thirty? If you can't, be honest with yourself. There's no point whatsoever in  spending all this time figuring out how to get a man to marry you if you're not  actually sure yourself.

Do you feel naturally happy around him? Are you glad to see him each day? Is  he the sort of man that makes you feel that the world is a better place when  you're together? Does he bring joy into your life?

Tip #4. Focus on the marriage, not the wedding.

Weddings are often expensive, and stressful. If you could forget the  fairytale outfit, the big dinner, the photos, the music, if all you could have  was him and you, and a quick wedding in Vegas or a simple civil ceremony, would  you still want to do it? And does he know that? We've all met those people who  spend all their energy on the big day - and nothing on the years that  follow.

If you're becoming stressed about the idea of a wedding - why would either of  you still feel positive about it? A wedding should be a joyous celebration of  the start of your lives together as husband and wife. Your wedding is just a day  in your life, whereas your marriage is for better or worse, and for keeps.

Thus your true focus should be on your relationship and your life together.  Your wedding, even though a momentous occasion, is after all just one day in  your life. Your marriage on the other hand is forever!

Tip #5. Accept the fact that not every man wants to get  married.

The thing is - and it's not always what everyone wants to hear - is that  there's no sure-fire way to get a man to marry you. Or indeed, to guarantee that  he'll say yes if you ask him. And you know what? Don't let that bother you.  Because if he's the kind of guy that needs persuading, if he's the kind of guy  that you're going to need to entice, if he's the kind of guy that's not into  marriage, and because of this he's driving you crazy, then you might be better  off with someone else.

There are plenty of men out there who will love you and commit to you, and  who want to get married. All you need to do is find the right man. And how do  you find the right man? By becoming the type of woman that a man wants to be  with. To learn more, go to get a man to marry you.

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