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Listen to your Dreams

November 6, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

When we sleep its only our body which rests but our mind is constantly staggering with dreams. Some times we see really horrible dreams and sometimes we are blessed with sweet and beautiful dreams as well. We all question ourselves and experts that do these dreams hold some profound meaning or are they just some blunt activities that our brain performs. No one has yet given any satisfactory explanation for the reality of our dreams. No doubt for some like me their dreams are full of meanings and they never take dreams very lightly.

There is no harm listening to our dreams as long as it is not affecting our daily life. According to my point of view and personal experience every dream has a meaning obviously with few exceptions. If you sit down and analyze what you dream and try to relate with your life then you will observe that almost your every dream was linked to your life in some or the other way. Dreams are symbolic of what has already happened or what can happen in the near future. Many a times we dream of falling down or slipping down a stair this is symbolic of a small failure or defeat in your life or a dissatisfactory performance given by you.

Giving importance to dream gives a direction to our life. Many a times we dream something which alarms us, this is most of the time symbolic that powers are alarming us in advance of some unwanted event that might be taking place in our life. Many of us sometimes dream of events that will take place in future. After few days or months we fin ourselves in similar situation. We feel extremely awkward when we feel that you have already faced such a situation but you do not know when you faced it. All these things rein stills the confidence in us that our dreams do hold some meaning which we most of the time neglect.

After you read this do listen to your dreams and do try to relate it with your personal life. You will surely find some meaning.

How to Handle Divorce

November 5, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

In life some things are destined to happen. It was written that you will meet your ex but it was also written that you both will get separated. In this fast forward world no one can take care of the other person. We have to deal with the problems of our life ourselves. Divorces are obviously the worst that can happen to a person but getting out of a divorce and living a normal life after that needs courage and really strong hard. But life never stops for anyone. Life has to move on. For whatever bad that happens to a person he must move on and say whatever happens, happens for the best.

In life everything has to be perfect by the end and if it is not perfect then it is not the end. Your marriage ended on a bad note but you life has still many lovely years to come. No matter how bad happened to you in your marriage but now you are out of that hell and like everyone you also deserved to live a life full of love and support. Handling a divorce is obviously not easy and you need to take help from your loved ones in such a hard time. It is quite evident that for you right now your life is very difficult but trust me in the near future you will relive your life.

Your life will soon be filled with lots of colors and love. Whatever you did for your ex your future will give that back to you. You may take help from some professional expert but until and unless you decide that you do not have to live such a life because of the person who didn’t even gave a damn to your happiness. Move on dear life has something more special and important for you in store that is why he eradicated that negative element out of your life. So regain your smile and have the courage to face your own life. Wait for the right time and the right person to enter in your life.

Choose Your Battles Wisely

November 5, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

Most of the times in our lives, our outcome defines what sort of decisions we took while we were supposed to put in some input. Almost everyday we have to take decisions which affect our future. We have to decide what all things need your attention and what things must be neglected.

When we become dedicated towards a certain goal in life we some how know that what will be the result in the end. When we take up tasks we know how well we can do it. Everybody knows what he can achieve in life and what he cannot. As mentioned our decisions affect our lives thus it is mandatory for us to choose our battles wisely.

We all have a hundred things that need our attention on an everyday basis. For completing tasks successfully we have to select what all things need urgent attention and what all things can be postponed. The kind of battles we take up and the kind of decisions we take defines our path towards success. If we take up things which we can never achieve in life and slog day in and day out for it then we will end up failing. We must choose our battles very wisely so that we can achieve what we truly deserve in our life. There is no point taking up battles that can never be won or that can never be concluded.

The kind of battles we take up decides what we will be going through in the near future. Your life depends only on your actions. The kind of things you do in your life for making it better or for growing in life will decide the outcome. What we think in this respect is important as well but only those thoughts are powerful which can be put up in action.

You might have faced incidences when people try to provoke you so that you do something that will give you a negative name. But sometimes you let go things but sometimes you do something about it. In such cases a person must act only when his actions are required. There is absolutely no point fighting against and for things which are useless for you. This is why it advised that you choose your battles wisely.

Overcome Procrastination

November 3, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

Procrastination is nothing but delaying things for tomorrow. It shows your laziness and lack of interest in your job. Procrastination obviously makes things difficult for us in the long run because it piles up tons and tons of work for us on our table. A person who delays his work every time ends up being in a big trouble in the end because of him others were also affected who wanted that work to be done on time. A person who procrastinates a lot earns bad image and poor name.
No No matter how much hard working you are but even if you delay your one task you earn bad name from the person who gave the work to you. There can be numerous reasons why you keep delaying your tasks; a few of them are mentioned in the next few lines.

The foremost reason can be that you are not in the right mood to start working or it’s too late to work. You may even mention that you are waiting for the right time to arrive in your life.
You took a task but you are now finding it very difficult to complete. This is a very potential reason why you are delaying a particular task.
Unclear thoughts and goals for your task.
Deadlines that can never be met and this is why you are not even trying too starting off.

This list can go on and on but there is no point cursing the causes we must suggest you some ways to overcome procrastination. It is not very difficult to overcome procrastination. All you need is to focus. Focus is a very small but very important word with big meaning in everyone’s life. You need to focus on the job to start and finish it. Make a time table which is not very strict or difficult to follow. This is for initial days. Once you start following the time table you prepared you will start regaining your confidence. Slowly increase your standards and think nothing but your work. You should think about work every time until and unless you complete it. Now if you have completed your large pending work you should promise to yourself that you will never leave any of your work pending.

How to Overcome Low Self Esteem

November 3, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

Our self esteem is an indicator of how much we worth ourselves. Self worth is indeed the most important thing for anyone on this planet earth. But there are many who do not give much significance to their own self and keep slogging in day and night for other’s benefit. Such people neither make it big in life nor stay happy. A person with a low self esteem can be identified very easily. People with low self esteem never does things with full interest and divine passion. They do things just for the heck of it and this is why they are not very successful in life.

A person who is oozing with confidence and flamboyance will obviously be able to make a better impact on people when compared with a person who lacks self esteem. A person can only flaunt confidence if he loves thy self. Loving yourself to a certain extent is important because it allows you to take decisions which are important for your life. A person can only show interests in other things if he loves himself. A person with high self esteem takes pride in doing things which are good for him. He does things for others as well but never compromise his feelings in that case.

All those who are suffering from low self esteem must follow the following tips for overcoming low self esteem. First of all learn to face yourself and accept yourself as you are. Look yourself in a mirror and look into your eyes deeply and ask for what you want. Ask questions to yourself and give true answers. Take pride in yourself and do not underestimate yourself anytime. You can achieve all the success in your life if for once you start loving yourself and take pride in your efforts.

You have no right to life such an introvert life with low self esteem. You can also live a life which is large and beautiful. If you will start loving yourself then you can love anyone else and then only others will show interest in you.

How to Overcome Fear of Rejection

November 2, 2009 by editor 1 Comment

Fear of rejection is a fear which has really occupied people from the core of their heart and mind. Fear of rejection is faced by almost everyone. Who wants to get rejected? No one wish to be rejected at any point of time but there are few people who fear of rejection to a limit which makes their life very difficult. Rejection is not a very good word because it really takes a toll on almost everyone. For those who fear of rejection a lot and face it every now and then must carry on reading this article because here they will learn how to overcome fear of rejection.

A person faces this phobia in various aspects of life. In relationships, in work, job assignments, interviews, dating and many more are arenas where a person face fear of rejection. Everyone wants to achieve everything in life. Here we will try to explain to you how to live a life which has no fear of rejection. If you follow the following advices then you might be able to accept yourself as you are.

It is very important to understand self. If you are not aware of our own shortcomings and strong qualities then how you will be able judge yourself and conclude what you should be doing and what not.
When you know that this is what you have to do in life and this is where you want to go then your fear of rejection diminishes because you know you are good in that thing and you will surely make it.

Fear of rejection can never be eradicated out of one’s life but a person must learn how to cope with it. One can cop up with fear of rejection only when he has confidence on abilities and talents. Only that person fear of rejection when is not confident of his work and is doubtful about getting that particular task. All those who are very sure of their capabilities never feel that they can be rejected because they trust thy self and believe in their own capabilities. Although such people de face nervousness but this never converts into fear of rejection.

How to Discover your Passion: Key Elements

November 1, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

Life is like a dream for some but for many their dreams are their life. Life without any aim or passion is like a ship without any sailor. Our passions and our aspirations define the direction our life will move towards. Our doings and our decisions all are determinants of our passions in life. Our passion is a thing or a task or something similar which we just love to do. We can take up our passion as our career for ensuring we live a happy and content life. When we have some passions in life and we get an opportunity to pursue them then we start feeling content and satisfied.

But there are many people who are not very sure of what their passions are. Such people live a life which has no directions and hence they do not know which way they are moving. People with no passions hardly feel satisfied because they are not aware of that thing which will make them feel satisfied. If you are one of those who are unaware of their passion and aim in life then it is the right time you discover one. Life is a game but it is not the one you used to play when you were just a kid. For ensuring that your life has some definite directions then you need to read on.

If you wish to discover your passion then you need to put in some effort. It is not that difficult to find out your passion. Whenever you do something just notice one thing, are you enjoying doing that thing or not? If you enjoy and just love to do some particular activity then it may be your passion. If you are bored and then you fell like doing that thing and you wish to pursue it forever then you may call it as your passion. The thing about which you are passionate about will keep you happy when you will be doing it. You passion will give a new direction to your life and you will naturally feel like working for it so that you may become much better in it.

How to Control Codependency

November 1, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

Some great souls always think for the benefit of others and keep other’s desires before their own. Such people who think a lot about other’s interests and desires are regarded as codependent.

Codependence is good to a limit which does not hurt your own interests and feelings. Almost everyone wishes to be loved by others. For other’s love and positive interest people do a lot of things but a codependent overdo things for others and think only about others. Such people feel that others are incomplete without them and will not be able to work perfectly if they are not there for help. This mind set sometimes irritates and even spoil people.

Person who feels that others will not be able to manage their lives without them are obviously nice and pure souls but such people must understand that everybody has a life and everybody is been gifted with ability to manage their own life. For a person who is codependent must learn to control such feelings. This is because not every time people will understand your gesture and things might turn upside down. For preventing anything wrong from taking place you have to learn how to control codependence. All those people who are codependent usually never accept what people offer them because they don’t feel they are worth their gesture. They just believe in giving and never expect and accept in return.

Codependent people develop such behaviors because they are under confident with low self esteem. Codependence is not easy. Not anyone can develop such behaviors. Giving all the time is not easy and that to when you do not want anything in return. Such people are of great value but they need to understand that they also are valuable and they should always be interdependent rather than being codependent. Interdependency is acceptable because both the persons of a relation are doing something for each other. This maintains balance and equality in a relation. But in codependency this balance never exists because the one who is doing keeps doing it and the other one does not bother to return back and also the giver is not accepting anything in return.

Learn the Details About Covert Hypnosis and Trust Yourself

November 1, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

When you begin to learn the details about covert hypnosis, you must just trust yourself and your ability to use them.

Here’s how:

Try not to over-analyze it. Don’t think about what it’s supposed to do. Instead, trust yourself and your ability to apply the tools you’ll be learning as you progress through this article, and just let your unconscious mind do the rest.

You see, I noticed after I just started using the techniques and stopped worrying about whether they would work or not, I experienced better results.

It’s probably because I wasn’t thinking about what could be, shouldn’t be, won’t be, or is… I just held the thought in my mind about what I’d like to accomplish, and turned it over to my unconscious mind to take care of.

Like this article for example. When I wrote this article, I sat and just wrote. But before I did that I imagined certain things. In my mind, I thought about you, dear reader and the impressions I’d like to make upon you as you read my articles. I imagined that you not only learned the best kept secrets to covert hypnosis, but you became inspired. I Imagined being famous because of this articles because it’s so down to earth, easy to apply and extremely powerful.

But even more so, I imagined that these articles would just “fall together” in its own unique way as I wrote it. That you, as you read it from front to back, by the time you finish reading it, you walk away with a power far greater than any power you could’ve ever imagined or hoped for.

I want you, dear reader, to be my friend. And the interesting part about me doing this is it turned out exactly the way I had planned. Comments come pouring in about how these articles has had positive impacts in people’s lives. And that makes me feel good.

How do you suppose I was able to accomplish all this? I simply held the thoughts in my mind so that they came true.

How to Stop Compulsive Lying

October 31, 2009 by editor Leave a Comment

Who likes a person who lies continuously? No one would ever trust such people and would never show a desire to stay in their company. A person who suffers from a disorder named compulsive lying completely understands what I am talking about. If you know someone who lie compulsively or you yourself are its victim then it’s the right time now that you bring a change in your life.

No relation can flourish if one partner suffers from a disorder of compulsive lying. Life is nothing less than hell for such people because they start fearing from their own behavior in front of others. Such people start preferring of staying away from people because they know they will lie and it will be caught.

People who suffer from this disorder of compulsive lying give a number of reasons as to how they developed this mayhem. You ask different people suffering from compulsive lying and you will get different reasons for their disorder. Though the reasons behind this disorder of compulsive lying are numerous but there is one permanent solution to it.

Hypnotism as we all know is a powerful tool for molding and transforming subconscious mind. We all are also aware of the fact that our thoughts, actions, beliefs, habits and everything arise from our subconscious mind. This disorder of compulsive lying also arises and settles in a subconscious mind. This is why hypnotism is regarded to be the perfect solution for this problem of compulsive lying.

If you have apprehensions related to hypnotism and how to practice hypnotism then do not worry you will get all information regarding it here. During self hypnotizing you can concentrate only on eradicating this habit of compulsive lying and this is how hypnotism will help you in eradicating this habit of compulsive lying from your subconscious mind.

You will have to add hypnotism in your everyday schedule. Read books and watch sessions of self hypnotism online for teaching yourself how to hypnotize you. It is not a very difficult task but if you do it with full dedication and concentration then you will surely be able to live a life without lying.