Render Competitors in Business or Love Immediately Helpless

Again, even though I’m sounding a bit repetitive, it all boils down to what you think about.

I, for example, love to play the game of pool. The person I’m playing with has no chance. I win every time and all the time. I always find myself in winning situations. I always win. People are fascinated with how good I am at pool. You don’t leave me a shot, because I’ll clean the table. Every person who plays me has one chance or no chance, and that’s it.

Now, how often do you think this is true for me? Just about every time.

The times that I do lose, I’m usually tired, or I’m not holding these thoughts in my mind, period. All the great sport players agree that 90% of the game is mental. The rest is physical. But let’s talk about something here. And that’s attaching to and pushing away something.

Suppose you’re a single man at a bar and there are 8 other men there, and only one hot attractive looking female there. Everyone is fighting for her attention. How do you gently defeat the other men?

You simply imagine as if you and she are talking and that she picks you out from the crowd! It’s that easy.

But this is where most men go wrong. They are attached to the idea that she has to pick him, and they try to push the other men to stay away from her. This can sometimes lead to a fight. She’ll also pick up on his insecurity. Women like confident men, but if you feel the need to “fend off” other men for the sake of a woman, it expresses unconsciously that you hold in your mind a low self-image.

When I found myself in these situations, I simply allowed myself to believe she’d pick me without having to do anything. And I’d let it go while going about my business. I didn’t pay one bit of attention to her. Then, she’d do something. She’d accidentally brush up against me. She’d wink, buy me a drink, stare at me and smile.