If you feel like you’re being cheated all the time, or that you get cheated too much, start feeling good about the fact that you can change those circumstances!
I had a gal write and tell me that she seemed to always attract jerks into her life that would cheat on her. She asked me to tell her what she was doing wrong.
I told her not to entertain those thoughts one bit. That when she thinks about attracting men into her life, they can’t help but to immediately treat her like a queen… to imagine as if these men she was attracting into her life wanted her, and only her because she loved herself. And because she loved herself, the men who she was attracting loved her too. She already had this man in her life.
She instantly felt better about it. I told her to write out her “fantasy man.” Write about all the qualities he had. I had her visualize what it is like to have a man like that in her life right now.
A few weeks went by and I got another e-mail from her. She told me that two of her past boyfriends that she hasn’t talked to in months called her out of the blue apologizing.
“But” she said “here’s the kicker, I didn’t care about them because I was too busy enjoying my time with my new boyfriend. He’s everything I ever wanted and more. Thank you so much, Nathan! You rock!”
All this happened because she changed her thoughts. Interesting, isn’t it? So that brings us back to attachments and “pushing away.”
When you’re looking to attract something into your life, there is usually one idea that you’re attached to while simultaneously pushing another away.
For example, a person who feels like he always finishes second, pushes that away while at the same time hopes to finish first. And this creates nothing. As long as he continues to think about both, he’ll continue to experience nothing. So when you’re looking to accelerate what you’d like to attract into your life whether it be little or no competition, money, sex, love – anything, be sure to focus on “it already is” that way.
And keep focusing on it! Over and over again!
Of course, it may seem like you’re lying to yourself and that you need to face reality. That is, if you’re in debt, then you’re in debt. It is tiresome to argue with what’s real.
What I’m suggesting is that you not start focusing on what it’s like NOT to have debt while wanting to get out of it, rather, focus as if you have perfect credit and more than an abundant source of money. It’s the attitude “Ahhhhhh, what a relief it is now that all my debts got paid off.” Hold on to those thoughts.
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Key Point: your thoughts are just as real as your present circumstances. Because your thoughts manifest, the thoughts that you hold onto most come true.
It’s a pattern. Just start creating new positive “feel good” patterns!
At this point, you may find yourself re-reading this article.
Again, try what’s being presented. The only way you’ll see results is when you use the knowledge that’s right in front of you.