Attract MenSo you finally found this page…

I don’t know how you landed here, but let me assure you that if you have been dying to figure men out & want to know why men do what they do then this page has all the answers you need.

I strongly suggest that you stop whatever you are doing right now and pay close attention to every single word on this page…Trust me! It will be worth it, let me show you why:

Does your mind go completely insane when you are in a situation with a guy where you can’t figure out why he is doing what he is doing?

Do you often think:

Why doesn’t he like me?
Why does he only want sex?
When will he commit?
What does he like or see in other women & not me?
Why does he reject me, and what do I lack?
Why doesn’t he love me?
Why do good men always run away from me?
Why do I always end up with losers?

 

It’s the basic: “Why…Why…Why?” syndrome, and I know these questions can drive you completely insane!

This is where women tend to think that their life would be MUCH easier if only they had access to some sort of magic tool which would show them exactly what a man is thinking.

Well…Reality can be mean. Life doesn’t always turn out the way you planned; especially when it comes to men and relationships… so it’s every woman’s fantasy to be able to finally have their life turn out like a fairy tale in the end.

I am sure when you were a little girl you had dreams about how perfect your life is going to be some day.

You dreamed about how your prince charming would magically come into your life and make you feel complete, and how everything would work out.

But now you realize it was all a dream, and reality has another plan for you: a plan you didn’t prepare yourself for.

 

Who knew men could be so complex?

Who knew relationships were so HARD and involved a never ending cycle of pain & pleasure?

In fact, EVERY single woman out there will at some point in her life experience:

…Rejection.
…Loneliness.
…Frustration.
…Hopelessness.
…Confusion/Doubts

 

And it goes on and on, BUT, there is a fairytale world in between the complexity of men, because when dealing with a man she will ALSO experience:

…Joy.
…Comfort.
…Security.
….Love.
….Understanding/Certainty.
…..and many MORE similar and positive emotions.

 

But here’s where it all breaks down…

 

Why do some women have more positive experiences than negative ones?

Well the answer is pretty simple and not an obvious one. These women understand what a man wants… And no…it’s not the right clothes, the right make up, the right hair etc…etc. That is all absolute CRAP!

That’s why I hate those talk show women who yap on endlessly about how you can make yourself the “super Barbie doll” who is pretty & attracts great men.

It’s ridiculous to even consider some of the advice given in these shows.

Sure you will attract a lot of men just by making adjustments in the way you look but that doesn’t mean you can buy his affection or love. Being a man myself let me tell you that when we see a pretty woman…our first thought is how to get her into bed. Period!

If a guy looks at you and is checking you out – Do you believe he is thinking “Wow! What a pretty girl! I would like her to be my wife & want to have kids with her”? Heck No! He is trying to figure out how he can get you into bed as quickly as possible.

Here is THE fact…And I know this will lead to a lot of arguments but:

 

A man can easily go to bed with you without having any emotional attachment towards you.

Men label women into two groups-

A woman he would just casually have sex with.
A woman he would want to be in a relationship with.

 

So ladies…Here is the truth- If a guy is having sex with you right now but is reluctant to talk about where things are headed then he has actually put you in the casual sex category.

Ever heard a guy say – “I just don’t want anything serious right now”?

It’s that same old boring line men use isn’t it? But does it mean he isn’t ready for anything serious? Heck NO!

What it means that he isn’t ready for anything serious with YOU. Yeah I know! It’s painful but the truth often hurts.

So now the big question is this: How can you avoid being a casual fling to him and become a woman he would want to get into a relationship with?

Here are some guidelines you need to follow…

 

Men Want a Woman Who is Non-Needy

 

Have you ever had those moments where you are talking to a guy & everything is going extremely well…the conversation is flowing well….

You can feel that instant connection. You like him a lot & now you are wondering how to make it absolutely certain that he will go out with you again? Now you are trying to figure out how to say the right thing and are trying hard not to mess it up.

You want to know more and more about him….

All of a sudden you are asking him lots of questions left, right, and center:

…Are you single?
…What do you do for fun?
…Do you have any siblings?
Etc etc etc…

 

Then the meeting comes to an end, he takes your phone number, and promises to call you.

You go back home…Filled with excitement.

You call your best friend & tell her about this handsome hunk you ran into today, explain how exciting it was for you, talk about how much fun you had, and all the other good stuff. Everyone is all chirped up and happy.

And then the waiting game starts…

You wait for his call. You check your phone a million times a day. You get super excited every time you see a call from an unknown number…Only to be disappointed when you answer it, because:

It’s not him…

And you wait…wait…and WAIT…He never called.

Confused, you call up your good old best friend again and discuss the possible reasons why he didn’t call; and after the end of a long conversation you two agree that he was just another jerk.

And this is where the story ends.

Here is the reality about human beings – Our minds are very quick to judge. We see something and form a judgment within seconds.

Men do the same thing.

If a man didn’t call you after a date even when he promised he would, then this means that in his mind you are overly needy. And neediness kills attraction.

This is a common pattern most women get sucked into: When you like a guy your normal desire is to get that guy to like you back…which for most women, means doing everything you can to accomplish that.

And in the process…You stop being your best self and start doing things just to impress the guy. Guys can sense this: a guy can sense when you like him….BUT, he can easily see when you are trying TOO hard to impress him.

 

This is how a man sees it:

“Oh she likes me…Interesting!”

“She’s asking too many questions…I guess she totally digs me.”

“She is getting weird now…Too many personal questions.”

“How do I get rid of her?”

And bam…Now you know how he saw the whole situation.

From the interaction and the way you behaved you projected a very needy attitude.

Men only feel attraction towards women who are not trying to gain their acceptance, which means you have to be non-needy. In order to accomplish that, you have to understand a two very important things here:

 

…You have to convey to him that you like him BUT that doesn’t mean you will make extra attempts to impress him to gain his acceptance.

 

…You have to be yourself like you normally are. When you make changes in your personality just to impress him or gain his acceptance he can easily sense that and it will backfire.

 

So how do you know when you are not being yourself when you are around a guy you really like? Well it’s simple:

If you find yourself saying the things you won’t normally say and doing the things you won’t normally do in his company then you are definitely on the wrong path. Stop yourself right there – and ask yourself – Am I normally like this?

And you will know exactly what to do.

Naturally, women know what they want, but don’t know what to do to get it. You’ll find yourself doing anything that just comes to mind, even though you aren’t sure it may work, to try and win a guy over.

This is where a strong understanding of men comes into play.

If a woman does not understand how a man’s mind works, or what she needs to do specifically to make him react positively in return, she will end up noticing that men lose interest and leave.

But, if a woman understands how a man’s mind works, she will KNOW exactly what to do in any situation, and the results will be everything she hoped for.

I have spent a lot of time and energy into figuring out some of the best insights and tactics a woman can use to get everything she wants out of her man.

In fact, I have taken the time to break apart a man’s mind and lay it out clearly for women to understand and use in their dating life.

And that’s why I strongly recommend you watch my personal video on the next page…

 

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Public speaking fear is one of the most commonly reported concerns across all  ages. Listed below are some public speaking tips and hints which will help  youngsters and adults conquer their anxieties and strengthen their public  speaking capabilities.

Practice Speaking First Related to Something You Know

For starters, presenting casual practice session opportunities referring to  something the speakers already know can help quite a lot. In a school, every  assignment for public speaking would profit by starting with a day or two when  each kid picks a topic on a every day activity and presents it before their  peers. It could be a story about a sport they play or an explanation of a daily  routine. The familiarity makes the speaking experience exciting and easy.

Thoroughly Know Your Subject Matter

This advice applies both to adults and to kids. Even before you begin writing  your speech, take all the time and effort required to understand everything  possible regarding the topics of your public speaking activities. The more you  learn and know about a topic, the more comfortable you can be when you finally  stand in front of others to explain and expand upon the subject.

Keep the Subject and Length Appropriate to the Age Group

Although adults may be required to talk about a range of sub-topics and will  sometimes be speaking for many minutes or even hours, public speaking for kids  need to be tailor-made for their age and ability. If a broad public speaking  topic has to be addressed by students or young people, consider breaking up the  speaking assignment into smaller sub-topics so that it is not overwhelming.

Practice like You Play, Rehearse like You Will Speak

It is an old sport adage that an athlete needs to practice the same way that  he or she will play. The same thing is true when preparing for a speech or other  public speaking activities. Take the time to create an environment similar to  that of your presenting venue when you are rehearsing. Try to find a mirror or  think about taping yourself so you can see how you present yourself. By far the  most important piece of advice is to speak using a relaxed, slow and smooth  delivery, even when rehearsing.

Know Your Speaking Space

Nothing minimizes nervousness more quickly than familiarity. This applies not  only to your public speaking topic, but also to the place you will present. If  at all possible, visit the place where you will be speaking. Check for possible  issues and concerns like stairway and tricky microphones. Arrange for  adaptations if you are a very tall or very short speaker. Take a look at the  technology if a computer or projector is a part of the plan. Figure out where  you must stand and what to do while awaiting your turn.

Relax Just Prior to the Speech

Maybe the worst thing you can do immediately before speaking is to keep  running your speech over and over in your head or even continuing to rehearse in  your room or office. A better approach is to read, watch some television, play a  game, or anything that relaxes you. Take a walk, or take a nap. You know  yourself best - work off nerves, or take deep breaths to find your center. Walk  up to the podium with something fresh and new to share, and you may have the  viewers in the palm of your hand.

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